The Difference Between Sex and Making Love

A friend once asked me if I believed there to be a difference between having sex and making love. I answered yes. Now let me clarify:

Having Sex-
When having sex, the first thing I think of is the kinky things. S&M comes to mind. It's planned and deliberate. It makes me take my time to carry out a fantasy and even role play. Dress up in some daunting costume and pretend or act even. It also makes me tease. Its the excitement of the foreplay rather than what comes afterwards that is highlighted.
Fucking-
Sorry you had to see that word Mom. That is when you are sexually frustrated and have loads of pinned up aggression looking to come out. You need to feel your spouse (partner) and you're just in it to finish. No emotional involvement.
Making Love-
This is where the passion comes in. You desire that person because your in love. The fact that eventually you will exert yourself (ejaculate) is irrelevant. You just want to express the inward emotion you feel for this person. You want to physically show your spouse (partner) that you love them. There is romance in the beginning, passion and love in the middle, and pillow talk at the end. You hold each other. Gaze in each other's eyes. You make promises to love that person the same way or even more through eternity. That's the difference. Hope it makes sense to you.