Love:
I was talking to my boyfriend about love not having anything to do with your looks. He asked if I would still love him and be attracted to him if he weren't a handsome fellow. I had to think about it for a nano second. That's how much I love him. Only needed enough time to hear the question. I once told him I hate it when people associate overweight with ugly. An overweight person can be just as attractive as a thin person. Some of the best looking people are in the plus-sized section of the boutiques. I think a person isn't really in love if they judge by the physical. My bf says men assume you'll gain weight with the passing years of marriage so if you're already plus-sized, then it will worsen after marriage. I say if you really love the person, you wouldn't leave them or love them any less. A person should lose weight because they want to or for health reasons, but never to keep someone from leaving them especially if they were that size since the beginning of the relationship. Love is blind. I leave you with 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. Notice the Bible never judged by physical appearance this love, but by character.
Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, 5 does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, 6 does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.